As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, one of my deepest wishes is to use the skills I’ve learned and honed over my career to promote the health and well-being of others like me.
As human beings we all have a need to be seen, listened to and understood by other human beings.
We yearn for acceptance. We yearn to be cherished. We yearn for loving kindness.
Most of us from the LGBTQ+ community have had many fewer of these experiences than we would have needed in order to really thrive. Some of us have lived in such hostile environments that the only solution has been to constrict ourselves in order to appear acceptable to others. We may have survived for years under these circumstances on the surrogates of approval for our achievements, appearance or some other types of external performance. And the possibility of being accepted and cherished as our full authentic selves may now still feel alien. Nevertheless a person inside us may be screaming to be liberated from a life that may look good on the surface to others but is not helping us be joyful.
Wearing a mask has been a survival strategy. Having practised this over decades, we may have lost touch almost completely with the beautiful, authentic person we are underneath mask, when we are at ease and comfortable and able to pursue our own joys.
I, Calum Anderson, have a mission. My mission is to help people from my community to heal from those wounds. I want to help you tune into a deeper version of yourself. I want to help you bring an accepting and loving energy into your daily existence in all the different areas of life that are important to you including your relationships. Let’s start with the most important relationship of all: your relationship with yourself.
The therapy relationship is unique and can be enormously powerful. I enjoy supporting you in patiently, tenderly and respectfully exploring, appreciating and accepting the you that has had to hide from the outside world in order to get by. I believe you deserve and are capable of more in your life. I believe that you and those who love you can benefit from a series of well-paced, gradual inner revolutions that we can work on together, which can set you up for many little steps towards a life of much greater fulfilment in the very long term.
Our approach is always kind, respectful and non-judgemental. I strive to balance a compassionate, warm energy that accepts the way things are with an assertive energy for positive change in your life moving forward.
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